Back Against The Bar

How to Write to Inmates
Step-by-Step Guide

How It Works

Getting started is straightforward. Follow these four simple steps to connect with an incarcerated individual — whether you are submitting a profile or looking to write your first letter.

Step 01

Create or Submit a Profile

Were you sentenced as a teenager and have spent years — maybe decades — working to become someone new? This is your platform. Tell the world who you are today, not just what you did. Share your growth, your goals, your voice.

Step 02

Profile Review

Every submission goes through our review process before it goes live. We verify details, check for safety and clarity, and ensure each profile accurately represents the individual. This keeps the platform trustworthy for everyone.

Step 03

Choose Your Connection

Once approved, browse available inmate profiles and find someone whose story resonates with you. Looking for friendship? Choose our pen pal service. Open to something deeper? Our matchmaking service helps create thoughtful, compatible introductions.

Step 04

Start Communication

Begin writing letters or connecting through approved channels. There are no scripts — just two people getting to know each other. We provide guidance on safe correspondence practices so your first letter feels confident, not uncertain.

Ready to Take the First Step?

Whether you are an incarcerated individual, a family member, or someone on the outside with an open heart — the process starts with a single action.
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